Ah....Love and youth really don't really mixes well sometimes huh? I do agree to a large extend that Changmin's perception of love is still very naive and a little unrealistic. He did said that he loves Jaejoong but I don't think he really loves Jaejoong that much. Well to me, at least not as deep as our resident hero/hunk aka Jung Yunho, major pain in the ass...
If you are really in love with a person, you'll love him and accept him for all he is - even though other people had touched him (abeit forced and non consensual). Here, like you, I wanna salute Yunho for his faith in love and maturity in understanding and handling situations.
I agree with you on your opinion about Yunho. All along, I have tremendous respects for Yunho; for who he is and especially for his magnanimosity in accepting Jaejoong back even though Jaejoong was "tainted"...well, maybe age and maturity does make a difference here...as we can see between Yunho and Changmin.
However, I must stress that what the Yunjae shared is totally different from what the Jaemin shared in the first place. The Jaemin's friendship and relationship was less deep and never sexually, so I guess to be fair to Changmin, it would be so much more harder for Changmin to accept Jae after he was being "tainted".
And with regards to Changmin's opinion on Yunho here, I found that jealousy has actually more or less blinded Changmin from seeing the truth, from allowing him to really seeing Yunho for who he is. His opinion towards Yunho is all skewed cause he felt that Yunho was the one who stole "his" Jaejoong's innocence away. And so, many things that Yunho did (even though there were reasons) seems very much unreasonable to him. In addition, he felt that he's being "victimised" here. However, if Changmin had understood that HE is actually the third party in the love equation here, he would see things is a whole new perspective.
Woman!!! I love this POV!! It helps us to understand Changmin's feeling so much more...
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Date: 2008-03-23 07:40 am (UTC)Ah....Love and youth really don't really mixes well sometimes huh? I do agree to a large extend that Changmin's perception of love is still very naive and a little unrealistic. He did said that he loves Jaejoong but I don't think he really loves Jaejoong that much. Well to me, at least not as deep as our resident hero/hunk aka Jung Yunho, major pain in the ass...
If you are really in love with a person, you'll love him and accept him for all he is - even though other people had touched him (abeit forced and non consensual). Here, like you, I wanna salute Yunho for his faith in love and maturity in understanding and handling situations.
I agree with you on your opinion about Yunho. All along, I have tremendous respects for Yunho; for who he is and especially for his magnanimosity in accepting Jaejoong back even though Jaejoong was "tainted"...well, maybe age and maturity does make a difference here...as we can see between Yunho and Changmin.
However, I must stress that what the Yunjae shared is totally different from what the Jaemin shared in the first place. The Jaemin's friendship and relationship was less deep and never sexually, so I guess to be fair to Changmin, it would be so much more harder for Changmin to accept Jae after he was being "tainted".
And with regards to Changmin's opinion on Yunho here, I found that jealousy has actually more or less blinded Changmin from seeing the truth, from allowing him to really seeing Yunho for who he is. His opinion towards Yunho is all skewed cause he felt that Yunho was the one who stole "his" Jaejoong's innocence away. And so, many things that Yunho did (even though there were reasons) seems very much unreasonable to him. In addition, he felt that he's being "victimised" here. However, if Changmin had understood that HE is actually the third party in the love equation here, he would see things is a whole new perspective.
Woman!!! I love this POV!! It helps us to understand Changmin's feeling so much more...